Communication Is The Key
What up everyone? How have you been? It's been awhile so bear with me. Recently I've been doing some thinking. I come to the conclusion that time and communication is a big factor when building a bond with any person. For example if your talking to someone you are interested in. The first thing you do is make sure you and them can converse. That is a critical stage when dealing with someone. Thru that conversation you then determine whether if you would like to see them. That's for when you wanna began a bond. Now you probably asking what if I'm already evolved in something. Communication means so much more at this point. If you and the other person involved in this relationship don't have communication it will crumble. Before you know it your conversations become arguments over the littlest of things. At this time you need to learn that patience will be another key factor in communicating. Instead of the continuos back and fourth; why not try listening to him/her actually take in there opinion a consider what they are saying. By doing so you are showing him/her that their opinion actually matters to you. This way they won't feel as if they're talking for their health. This will actually make them feel more comfort in talking to you. They now see that they can express theirselves and will continue to do so. Now if communication with someone is new to you. Just remember be patient listen to them show that you are interested and speak when they are done. Don't over talk them give them a fair chance to say what it is they are trying say. Now that you have gotten your communication skill are right this will usher in more time for for y'all to bond in person.
Time Is Of The Essence
That caption says it all. Time is really an important key in any relationship, bond or whatever you wanna call it. But I won't be describing time in sense of clocks or dates. I will be describing it as "putting in time" as in spending time with one another. This is essential part in any type of bond or relationship. The more time you spend with one another the more trust and comfort is built. This time consist of dates just chilling in the house with one another or that short stop by you do just to talk to them at that moment. By doing all of this u secure a place in their heart that makes u special to their life. This time creates memories that will be forever cherished by both parties. Now what happens when that time is not put it causes friction between the parties. It's shows that one party actually isn't as interested as the other. Then again they can be interested they just don't have the time for them. This lack of time with each other triggers many things mainly lack of communication and other problems. Communication and time go hand and hand. You can't do one with out the other. When you do show one without the other it makes the one that you do show look as if it's not enough. So if your gonna give communication on a high level make sure the time equal up to it. If not you may find yourself being replaced by someone who can. Well that's that for now just another Thought Of A Common Mind.........
Communication Is The Key
What up everyone? How have you been? It's been awhile so bear with me. Recently I've been doing some thinking. I come to the conclusion that time and communication is a big factor when building a bond with any person. For example if your talking to someone you are interested in. The first thing you do is make sure you and them can converse. That is a critical stage when dealing with someone. Thru that conversation you then determine whether if you would like to see them. That's for when you wanna began a bond. Now you probably asking what if I'm already evolved in something. Communication means so much more at this point. If you and the other person involved in this relationship don't have communication it will crumble. Before you know it your conversations become arguments over the littlest of things. At this time you need to learn that patience will be another key factor in communicating. Instead of the continuos back and fourth; why not try listening to him/her actually take in there opinion a consider what they are saying. By doing so you are showing him/her that their opinion actually matters to you. This way they won't feel as if they're talking for their health. This will actually make them feel more comfort in talking to you. They now see that they can express theirselves and will continue to do so. Now if communication with someone is new to you. Just remember be patient listen to them show that you are interested and speak when they are done. Don't over talk them give them a fair chance to say what it is they are trying say. Now that you have gotten your communication skill are right this will usher in more time for for y'all to bond in person.
Time Is Of The Essence
That caption says it all. Time is really an important key in any relationship, bond or whatever you wanna call it. But I won't be describing time in sense of clocks or dates. I will be describing it as "putting in time" as in spending time with one another. This is essential part in any type of bond or relationship. The more time you spend with one another the more trust and comfort is built. This time consist of dates just chilling in the house with one another or that short stop by you do just to talk to them at that moment. By doing all of this u secure a place in their heart that makes u special to their life. This time creates memories that will be forever cherished by both parties. Now what happens when that time is not put it causes friction between the parties. It's shows that one party actually isn't as interested as the other. Then again they can be interested they just don't have the time for them. This lack of time with each other triggers many things mainly lack of communication and other problems. Communication and time go hand and hand. You can't do one with out the other. When you do show one without the other it makes the one that you do show look as if it's not enough. So if your gonna give communication on a high level make sure the time equal up to it. If not you may find yourself being replaced by someone who can. Well that's that for now just another Thought Of A Common Mind.........
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