Love After War Pt. 2

 "The Cute Faze "

" Smiley Faces After All Of Her Phrases , Either She The One Or Im Caught In " The Matrix " - HOV( G.O.A.T ) . This Quote Is Very Simple . As We Learned Last Week Now Fake Feelings Are Setting In . Good Morning Text , Cute Text Messages , " Am I Gonna See You Today " , " Lets Watch Movies ( Lowkey I Want You ) . Keep In Mind While They've Spent A Great Amount Of Time Together ( Movies , Phone Calls , Dates ect. )  People Tend  Get To " Relaxed "

                  " Fake Love " 

If You Keep Fuckin This Chick You Like Her . Keep It A Buck . ( And Vice Versa ) . If You Keep Fuckin This Person Its Something About Them Other Than Sex You Are Now Intrested In . And At This Point Fake Loving B . Dates Become More Often , Intresting And More Intense . Kisses Began To Get More Intimate  . ( Kissing Really Is Fake Dope Tho ) . Fake Love Is When " She Put It On You And Make You Wanna Marry Her " . You Know How You Fuck Her Real Good And Its Ya Pussy From Now On ? Or Naaaa ? Nvmmm . Now They Fallin In Love With The Sex B . While Hes Occupying the Box , To Her Hes Occupying Her Heart .  And The Same Way Around Like Those Drake Ass Niggaz Fall In Love With The Box Too . Smh The Word Love To A Eek You Have Open Is Like A Key Opening A Door Called War .

It Went From Intense Sex To Intense Fights . Now Ya Really Getting Mad About Every Little Thing That Happens . Then Yall Gotta Remember It Was " We Havin Just Sex " . Now This Is Always Being Thrown Into Topics Here And There Which Causes The State Of " WAR " . War Is Like How We Said Please Keep In Mind From The First Day He Got Your Box Your Lives Changed Forever ......

Love After War Pt. 1

What Is The Most Common Problem Between Men And Women ... It Is Love After War . What Is Love After War ? Love After War Is When Two Parties Begin With Just A Physical Attraction . After Sex One Party Wants More And The Other Does Bringing In The State Of War . What Is The Meaning Of The Word Love ? To Feel A Deep Romantic Or Sexual Attachment ; To Find Pleasure In . What Is War ? War Is A Conflict Or Hostility Between Different People Or Groups Based On Personal Views . In The Beginning Its Start As " Yo ( Excuse Me Miss ) " Then Leads To The " Hit And Run " Followed By " Love " Ending In " War .

" Yo ( Excuse Me Miss ) "

" I Dont Know Your Name But Excuse Me Miss I Saw You From Across The Room And Ive Got To Admit  That You Caught My Attention And You Making We Wanna Say Yo " - Chris Brown . The Lyrics Are Pretty Self Explanatory . He's Trying To Catch The Attention Of A Woman He Is Physically Attracted To . ( The Ice Breaker ) When People Are Physically Attracted To Each Other Its Based Strictly Of Looks And Personality . In You Initial Reaction To Meeting The Opposite Sex You Decide Sex Or Relations . At That Moment Of Meeting This Person Do You Allow Yourself To Get Caught Up Based On Physical Appearance ? In This Case Yes It Does Happen . Which Leads To The Hit And Run .

 " The Hit Run " 

The Male Perspective Of The Hit And Run Is Where Text , Phone Calls And Chillin ect Are Exchanged Known As " Getting To Know Each Other " . This Is Also Known As " Puttin In Work  " . While Putting In Work He Can Either A. Lead Her On ( Through Deception By Feeding Her False Hopes And Dreams ) Cuz We All Know That Bitches Love Dreams . Or B. He Can Be Upfront About Just Wanting To Fuck . Relationships Are A Dying Breed Everyone Just Wants Sex Or They Have A Hidden Agenda .

The Female See's The Male Perspective As Gaining Trust Through Comfort . In Order For Him To Get The Box She Has To Be Comfortable Enough For Him To Be Between Her Legs . After The Male Earns Her Trust Then He Is Able The Achieve Tho Goal ( Her Box ) . Once He Gets The Box Things From That Day , That Week , That Month , That Year , That Decade , That Millenium Their Lives Changed Forever ..... CHANGED FOR EVER !!!!!!!

Communication & Time Is All We Need

     Communication Is The Key

What up everyone? How have you been? It's been awhile so bear with me. Recently I've been doing some thinking. I come to the conclusion that time and communication is a big factor when building a bond with any person. For example if your talking to someone you are interested in. The first thing you do is make sure you and them can converse. That is a critical stage when dealing with someone. Thru that conversation you then determine whether if you would like to see them. That's for when you wanna began a bond. Now you probably asking what if I'm already evolved in something. Communication means so much more at this point. If you and the other person involved in this relationship don't have communication it will crumble. Before you know it your conversations become arguments over the littlest of things. At this time you need to learn that patience will be another key factor in communicating. Instead of the continuos back and fourth; why not try listening to him/her actually take in there opinion a consider what they are saying. By doing so you are showing him/her that their opinion actually matters to you. This way they won't feel as if they're talking for their health. This will actually make them feel more comfort in talking to you. They now see that they can express theirselves and will continue to do so. Now if communication with someone is new to you. Just remember be patient listen to them show that you are interested and speak when they are done. Don't over talk them give them a fair chance to say what it is they are trying say. Now that you have gotten your communication skill are right this will usher in more time for for y'all to bond in person. 

        Time Is Of The Essence 

That caption says it all. Time is really an important key in any relationship, bond or whatever you wanna call it. But I won't be describing time in sense of clocks or dates. I will be describing it as "putting in time" as in spending time with one another. This is essential part in any type of bond or relationship. The more time you spend with one another the more trust and comfort is built. This time consist of dates just chilling in the house with one another or that short stop by you do just to talk to them at that moment. By doing all of this u secure a place in their heart that makes u special to their life. This time creates memories that will be forever cherished by both parties. Now what happens when that time is not put it causes friction between the parties. It's shows that one party actually isn't as interested as the other. Then again they can be interested they just don't have the time for them. This lack of time with each other triggers many things mainly lack of communication and other problems. Communication and time go hand and hand. You can't do one with out the other. When you do show one without the other it makes the one that you do show look as if it's not enough. So if your gonna give communication on a high level make sure the time equal up to it. If not you may find yourself being replaced by someone who can. Well that's that for now just another Thought Of A Common Mind.........

"Do You Remember"

So I was on twitter talking about the good ol days of tlking to someone. Do you guys remember how it use to be to tlk to a female/male, like honestly remember the work and time you put. The dedication you had, the determination u had to make that person yours. You talk bout them to all ya friends. Let them know that he/she was the one (in your eyes). You text them all day, your on the phone with them all night till the sun come up. Plus we all remember the beginning sex. Going like six rounds or until you or her/him was in pain. Those where the days and when you think back on it you miss them days. Like back then he/she was so assertive and aggressive. They made sure you where apart of there day. Y'all did every thing together from family events to dates. Some ppl keep tht spark and others don't. Specially when it comes to sex. Cuz you know that, that person is still in there. You try to bring it out of them every time it goes down. Now there lazy or they don't wanna do to much cuz they not really in the mood. Which starts to turn you off and all you do is think about the beginning. When it was fun to be with them you guys laughed and joked around. Those times are the best you cherish them the most. As I write this I think of a few of my times. With that said I leave you with this. Don't lose that spark try to rekindle the flame that you had in the beginning. Specially if it's not worth losing. Always fight for what you believe in and never give up if it's right. This has been another Thought Of The Common Mind and I'm out y'all be cool till next time Peace......